Understanding the Heartbreak

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sparksandlight — Wed, 15 May 2013 22:30:00 -0500

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sparksandlight — Wed, 15 May 2013 22:28:29 -0500

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sparksandlight — Tue, 14 May 2013 20:02:42 -0500

I need relationship advice! There's this guy- we've been together for about 6 months. He doesn't want to make it official until I turn 20 just for certain reasons, nothing bad and I'm totally okay with it. You see my problem is, I'm in love with him... But I'm so afraid to tell him- and I want to dearly! How should I go about it? How would you? Should I make it romantic or just clumsily say it? ._. I'm so nervous.

sparksandlight — Mon, 06 May 2013 17:20:20 -0500

Awesome question!! Aww this is so cute! Okay hmm, I think that clumsy is really cute when it comes to this but I think the best thing to do is just let it happen when you feel really strongly that you want to tell him. Spontaneously would be cute. Like go to the park and play on a tire swing or something and while your spinning around and laughing and there’s that little pause while you two are looking at each other you could say it then. Keeping it light makes it not seem as nerve wracking to say it as well, if you are just laughing and happy and you say it, it just makes the moment even better. Just my opinion :) Thanks so much for sending me this question! I love it!

yanilavigne: (Quotes here)

sparksandlight — Mon, 06 May 2013 00:30:31 -0500

yanilavigne:

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cantescape: waitingforarthur: eclectic-turmoil: msdeyes: i...

sparksandlight — Sun, 05 May 2013 13:14:42 -0500

cantescape:

waitingforarthur:

eclectic-turmoil:

msdeyes:

i was asked to make it rebloggable, i hope this helps in some way xx

The happy dance your dog makes every single time you get home.

I think I need to pin this to my wall and read it some days.

thank you for this

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sparksandlight — Sun, 05 May 2013 13:02:02 -0500

followed you on instagram - chrystinereyes

sparksandlight — Sun, 05 May 2013 12:59:50 -0500

Thanks!! I followed you back!! :D

Just a note.

sparksandlight — Sun, 05 May 2013 12:47:00 -0500

Hello new followers! Thank you so much for following! Feel free to send any questions and I will answer the best that I can! And if you want to see more about the girl behind the blog I live my life best with pictures so here is my Instagram name starlynn92. I follow everybody back on there :)

I hope that you are all grand and that life is treating you well. If you are in need of advice then feel free to ask anything. You guys are amazing!

first i just wanted to say that your blog is by far my fav! i never really go on tumblr anymore but i could scroll through your blog forever. idk what to do because i'm in a really bad situation but it's probably too long to type here and idkk what to do please help!!

sparksandlight — Sun, 05 May 2013 12:43:41 -0500

Aww thank you!! I’m excited that you love it :D

Since I don’t know much about your situation I just wanted to help with some basic advice :) Do what makes you feel right. Talk to your friends that you trust or family or a counselor and they will help guide you to answers. Stay healthy and remember that life is long and this is just a short part of it. If someone is being mean to you in a relationship remember that you are better and deserve to be treated better. Whatever the situation remember that you can, and will, get through it and find the answers that you need. Feel free to talk on here anytime and I hope that this helps you in some way! :D

deliredore: reminding myself

sparksandlight — Wed, 01 May 2013 10:42:15 -0500

deliredore:

reminding myself

conveys: #000000 & #ffffff

sparksandlight — Wed, 01 May 2013 10:41:04 -0500

conveys:

#000000 & #ffffff

He’s leaving girls in his wake like its his job. I realize that there’s now a pile of...

sparksandlight — Tue, 30 Apr 2013 12:21:54 -0500

He’s leaving girls in his wake like its his job. I realize that there’s now a pile of girls who have lost him. You can’t love a rolling stone.

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sparksandlight — Tue, 30 Apr 2013 12:04:00 -0500

karla-world: literally

sparksandlight — Thu, 25 Apr 2013 16:39:40 -0500

karla-world:

literally

sparksandlight: Sometimes I look into the past at people’s ex girlfriends and boyfriends and think...

sparksandlight — Thu, 25 Apr 2013 15:57:37 -0500

sparksandlight:

Sometimes I look into the past at people’s ex girlfriends and boyfriends and think “do they still like them/find them attractive, would they leave and go back? How do they just move on in a new relationship”. And then I analyze break ups and remember those and think to myself, they will move on one day and be happy. It’s like a giant circle and the whole center and point of it is, they move on. Relationships and people are just so complex. And you can love more than once in your life.

So my computer has been notifying me that I have messages and I have lot’s! I’m so...

sparksandlight — Mon, 22 Apr 2013 17:27:09 -0500

So my computer has been notifying me that I have messages and I have lot’s! I’m so sorry! I will be responding to those and sending them privately so I make sure you all get them!

Sorry about that again!

jenerella: Today, I threw away our balloons. There wasn’t enough space in my cabinet for them...

sparksandlight — Wed, 17 Apr 2013 12:44:21 -0500

jenerella:

Today, I threw away our balloons. There wasn’t enough space in my cabinet for them anymore.

There isn’t enough space in my heart for sad thoughts.

"The memories will fade but only if you let them.Let go no matter how hard it is.Dont live in the..."

sparksandlight — Wed, 17 Apr 2013 12:40:40 -0500

“The memories will fade but only if you let them.Let go no matter how hard it is.Dont live in the happiness of the past because it will affect your happiness in the future”

- (via heartattackdiares)

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sparksandlight — Sun, 14 Apr 2013 00:23:32 -0500